Tony Afi (Tafi) Awani is Dead!!!

It’s so hard to believe that Tafi is gone. My brain is still playing games with my mind “This is not true! This cannot be real!! Wake up! It’s just a dream!!!” No, this is not a dream. This is for real.

My heart is deeply sorrowful and very heavy as I acknowledge the reality of the passage of my brother, colleague and bosom buddy, Tony Afi Awani, in Abuja  on Tuesday 6^th January.

Tafi and I met as pioneer staff of the Vanguard Newspapers in 1984, shared a lot as professional colleagues, became flat mates at a point in time and have remained friends until now.Some grief is hard to cope with especially when it is...

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suddenly thrust upon you. This is hard to believe especially when someone really close has gone, just like that, SUDDENLY.

I have lots of warm memories of how you were always there for everyone. Tafi, you were truly a great guy. Always there with a warm smile and an encouraging word to assuage any bitter and depressed soul. Your very carriage and outward confidence and disposition were ethereally contagious.

Joshua and Toju

Folashade

To your lovely wife, companion and mother of your adorable children, Folashade, I say, “Do not lose hope. Have faith in God and belief in yourself. Think positive. Remember all the beautiful reasons why he was so special to you and understand that God is the one that has the final say on life. There is no reason to despair or be sad. I believe your journey through life with him has been such a tremendous joy. Relax; God is absolutely in control.” 

Tafi, you were always part of my family, more like a brother. You were an exceptional person. Time in my opinion doesn't really completely remove the pain and anguish, but it helps us learn to deal with our loss and continue to move forward. The tears will always continue to be shed, but the memories of your warm amiable persona will forever be locked in my mind and in my heart.

Now that you have taken a glorious bow out of our reach, I know that you are very peaceful wherever you are, because of all those happy, motivating moments you shared while you were here with us. You will be missed. Rest in peace my friend.